Fatherhood — Letters

Letters from the first and the 15th

The first and the 15th is a biweekly newsletter (seriously, you only receive it on the first and the 15th of each month) where I share my worldview as a human writer in a world where writing is increasingly being underappreciated.

I explore the concept of using writing, reading, and books as a way to share ideas and start meaningful conversations. And just for the fun of it, I may include a book recommendation so you can add it to the growing stack of books you buy but never actually read. Yes, you.

Posts tagged Fatherhood

I finally understand Don Draper

I finally understand why a man of such intellect, wits, and talent, can have so many flaws and, at times, behave selfishly.

the first and the 15thTobi NifesiSeptember 1, 2024Tobi NifesiMad Men, Trauma, Psychology, Fatherhood, Men, Relationships, Time

“What is it like being a father?”

Conventional wisdom says we should always keep an open mind. While I absolutely agree with that advice, I don’t think it applies to my time.

the first and the 15thTobi NifesiMay 1, 2023Tobi NifesiFatherhood, Time

I quit. And here’s why.

When I promised myself, in that one letter four months ago, to take stock of my time and reevaluate how I use it, I knew I had to report back at some point. So here it is.

the first and the 15thTobi NifesiApril 15, 2023Tobi NifesiCareer, Fatherhood, Time

hello parenthood

Lerit and I realize how incredibly blessed and privileged we are to be parents and are looking forward to stepping into this next phase of our lives and relationship.

the first and the 15thTobi NifesiNovember 1, 2021Tobi NifesiFatherhood