Ghostwriting — Letters

How much do you really know about your loved ones? How much do they know about you? They don’t really know you, do they?

the first and the 15thTobi NifesiOctober 15, 2024Tobi NifesiGhostwriting, Psychology, Vulnerability, Writing, Therapy

rest well

We don’t do enough with the time we set aside to rest, and that makes work much more difficult to return to.

the first and the 15thTobi NifesiSeptember 15, 2024Rest, Time, Work, Bible, Ghostwriting

the age of assumption

What do psychics, prophets and fortune tellers have in common?

the first and the 15thTobi NifesiJune 1, 2024Questions, Ghostwriting, Work, Journalism

when writing isn’t just therapy

We all need a sounding board, especially men. We do. But should it always involve writing?

the first and the 15thTobi NifesiApril 1, 2024Tobi NifesiTherapy, Ghostwriting, Vancouver

Skip the roses for this one

You can skip the roses for this one. A simple thank you note, a small gesture of kindness, or even just a heartfelt conversation can go a long way in strengthening relationships and fostering a positive work environment.

Counting the cost

Counting the cost is only part of the process; it’s not the end. This part of the process isn’t supposed to deter you from moving forward. Instead, it is supposed to keep you informed and help position you for success in the long run. So, embrace it.

Can you? or Can you not?

The fact that nobody has it all figured out is liberating. It means that we can push and stretch ourselves as far as our limits can go.

the first and the 15thTobi NifesiJanuary 15, 2024Writing, Ghostwriting, Trauma, Psychology, Book

And just like that, it’s December

Exactly four years ago, my then-fiancee and I boarded a plane from Winnipeg to Vancouver, with layovers in Calgary and Edmonton. It was a one-way, all-night trip, and we haven’t looked back since.

Who cares?

“The truth is,” I continued, “there will always be people who won't care about you or your story. Most people won’t. But there will also be people who do care. People who find inspiration, connection, and encouragement in the stories we share. People

the first and the 15thTobi NifesiNovember 15, 2023Storytelling, Ghostwriting, Writing, Time

this little instrument of mine

When I think about the most impactful ways I can apply this little gift and instrument of mine, that is called writing, I can’t think of anything other than telling stories—stories, imagined or true, that give people the guts to try new things, to not be too afraid of change, and to be resilient in the face of adversity.

the first and the 15thTobi NifesiFebruary 15, 2023Tobi NifesiWriting, Ghostwriting, Storytelling

No Attribution Required

If someone does a good or bad thing because of something I wrote, is it my fault that they did what they did? Am I responsible for the reactions people have after they read my work?

the first and the 15thTobi NifesiApril 15, 2022Ghostwriting, Writing

Letters from the first and the 15th

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